DANGEROUS CRITICS

DANGEROUS CRITICS

Have you ever felt so bad  after someone passed a comment? Has anyone ever made you feel so bad about yourself? have you ever received comments that dampen your spirit? Have you ever felt worthless? If yes ,then you have just encountered a critic and a dangerous one at that.

To be criticized means to say that you disapprove of somebody or something or to judge the good and the bad qualities of something.  You cannot avoid criticism. Aristotle once said “criticism is something you can easily avoid by saying nothing, doing nothing and being nothing”

Constructive criticism is good but criticism that makes you feel bad about yourself, that is set to degrade and discourage you not necessarily to correct you should be avoided.

Its worse for people who get easily affected by what others say. I mean people who live on public opinion and acceptance. If you are somebody seeks approval from people or that takes in what everybody says about you, you might nee to have a re-think and start working on it because believe me you are going to meet several people whose aim is just to destroy your self esteem. some won’t even know they are hurting you. Sanguines   are very prone to being affected by what people say because of their extrovert , outgoing ’here comes the star’ nature.

TEENAGERS AND MUSIC

TEENAGERS AND MUSIC

 

Music is dynamic, music is branched, and music is not a one way traffic. ‘’music is my life…’’He declared,’’  “oh music simply makes me high’’another one says.’’my life is never boring with music’’she declared. These are some of the responses some young people gave when they were asked what music is to them.

People are often intoxicated by music.Ignore the title of this article because virtually all Young people  even  older youths are easily influenced by music .The lyrics,the rhyme,the rhythm, the beats, send them all twisting,break-dancing  even day-dreaming.The influence of music on the teenager’s life cannot be over-looked.Apart from the fact that some actually waste time concentrating on lyrics, finding out latest releases,it has become an addiction for some! A sixteen years old girl once confessed that she couldn’t sleep without listening to music. One of my older friends does virtually all he needs to do around the house listening to several songs. Even when has to take his birth! Hundreds of teenagers sleep with their playlist or radio on. Some read with their earphones, listening to different forms of music unend. Some simply see it as a means of expressing themselves while some claim to get certain information from it. Psychological studies have shown that music conditions a teenagers’ behavior.  Let’s take a look at some of the foreign music which most young people listen to.